Goddess Aradia wrote something in Her blog that peeked Me to write this morning. It never seems to amaze Me some people in this lifestyle that see each and every thing as different avenues to take.

In a lifestyle that "prides" itself in the saying "Even if your kink is not My kink, it is respected", sure has a lot of people in it that have such misunderstandings of the lifestyle as a whole.

As GA wrote they are really just pigeon holes in the greater view of things.

Whether you call it
BDSM
D/S
S/M
FLR
LFA
Domina
Fem Dom
Black
White
ECT

They really are just the same thing rolled into the "lifestyle" Everyone has such different meanings for each that one can call it D/s and mean something totally different the someone else calling it that.

What W/we need to all understand is that what works for one may not work for another. What one feels the meaning of FLR is may be different then the other.

There is one thing that I have no patience for are people in this lifestyle that write or act as if they know everything, when in essence they know nothing at all.

Do you really think that the handful of U/us that have lived a true lifestyle life do not see through all the holes in you?

W/we do. W/we see it more often then Y/you know.

I believe sadly this happens in so many area's of life. Not just the D/s lifestyle. What I may see as black, someone else may see is dark gray. What GA may see as pink, I may see as light red.

Whatever the reasons, whatever the situation, accepting others views and differences is what makes U/us who W/we are.

W/we may all walk the same sort of path. Yet walk it knowing that it means something different to each one of U/us.

Blessed be,
Goddess Moon