So, there have been several of us that keep blogs that are posting on an entry that LFA spectic wrote about in his/her journal. I know that it angered quite a few and wanted to step on the point Myself.

Reading it did not anger Me. It simply showed Me yet again that so many in this lifestyle are clueless in what they know. So many enter, play around or write about this lifestyle with "surface" knowledge. Surface knowledge is based on what someone reads on the net, see on TV or movies. Anyone can have surface knowledge and in fact most of U/us have surface knowledge in almost everything in life. I could do open heart surgery... I could cut open the chest and get that far. That is surface knowledge.

It is clear that this person simply has that. Stating that D/s is based on a mother/son relationship shows the lack of any real life situations or any true study behind what he or she speaks of. There are so many different aspects of D/s that there can not be one right or wrong answer.

In fact, putting the words BDSM together in My eyes is just not the correct thing to do.

BDSM... all four areas are so very different in every aspect that putting them together seems wrong and over all confusing to those just starting out.

Will touch on that subject tomorrow.

It seems that the misconception with so many that live a D/s or S/m lifestyle is that W/we all must have been fucked up somewhere down the line. We have had to be abused, raped, beaten.. ect. We must have all had terrible childhoods.

I have never been raped, had a wonderful childhood and have only been hit a few times. Usually it was I who hit first! I did not come into this lifestyle to make up for something I did not have or try to heal something that happened to Me. I know several people in the lifestyle that have and their coming in the lifestyle was not at all related to the things that have happened to them in their past.

I think with anything in the world there are good and bad sides. There are good and bad people in this lifestyle and out of this lifestyle. When I read that blogger entry I simply shook My head. Not in anger, not in saddness, but in frustration that yet another person is getting on the high horse and acting as if they know what they are talking about when in truth.. they have no fucking clue.

In Blessing and light,
Goddess Isis Moon